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Superior Court of Washington, County of King

No.25-2-11308-6

 

 

 

Mathew Ralidak 06/12/86
Petitioner DOB Declaration of
Veronika Goodnight (Name)
V. (DCLR)
Veronika Goodnight 02/15/82
Respondent DOB

 

This declaration is made by:

Name:

Veronika Goodnight

Age: 43

Relationship to the parties in this action: Past Committed Intimate Relationship

| declare,

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| am the respondent in this case and the biological mother of the protected person's
three children.

| am submitting this supplemental declaration to bring to the Courts attention of ongoing
violations of our parenting plan and controlling behavior by Mathew Ralidak, which
directly relate to the nature of this protection order case.

On April 10", 2025, Mathew scheduled a medical appointment for Elora without
informing me. | was not told of the change in provider or time. | canceled a day of work
and when | arrived early, | was denied entry by the provider since Mathew earlier made
false claims that | was an alcoholic, drug addict and had mental illness. He created a
scene and my daughter looked coerced so | made another appointment with L. Miller
the following week to create peace and | left quietly. The provider L. Miller listed her
psychiatric behavior as “nervous/anxious” on 4/10/25 appointment and at the following
appointment L. Miller removed the false medical family history. See exhibit B.

Following the April 10", 2025 medical appointment, where | was denied entry and
witnessed my daughter Elora exhibiting signs of distress and coercion, | had a follow-up
discussion with Lisa Miller, ARNP. Cassidy Derieg was present with me at this
appointment as L. Miller is Cassidy’s nurse practitioner as well. Ms. Miller noted that
Elora’s psychiatric presentation was anxious and nervous, and it became clear that
Elora needed a supportive adult presence to feel safe during future appointments. After
consultation with Ms. Miller, we mutually agreed that a “Consent to Treat a Minor without

 

RCW 7.105.200, .235, .500 Declaration (DCLR)
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Parent or Guardian Present” form would be signed to allow Cassidy Derieg—Colin
Derieg’s daughter, and step sister to Elora—to attend the next appointment on May eo,
However, Mat rescheduled the appointment for May 22" without informing me, and
again failed to coordinate. Cassidy is fearful of Mathew’s behavior and radical false
accusations and is uncomfortable at appointments without me being present. This
protection order is inhibiting our children care they need. This pattern of scheduling
without notice and cancelling appointments after | have already communicated with him
on TalkingParents further demonstrates Mathew’s continued interference with my
parental role and the court-ordered joint medical authority. Please see Exhibit C.

5. In addition, | scheduled Elora for allergy testing per L. Miller's recommendation, on
August 13", their ONLY available time, during my 2 week uninterrupted summer time.
Mathew then contacted NW Allergy and Asthma Center, canceled the appointment
without my consent, and demanded to reschedule, falsely accusing me of “contempt”.
Screenshots are attached as Exhibit D. This demonstrates a repeated pattern of
interference and misrepresentation of the court orders.

6. These incidents reflect a continued misuse of authority and legal process to exclude me
from our children’s medical care and violate our parenting plan. This behavior is not
consistent with someone needing protection; it is consistent with someone exerting
control and undermining the court’s intent for shared parenting. This pattern that
undermines the court’s intention for cooperative, joint parenting has been aggressive for
5 years.

7. The protection order entered against me stated that Mathew Ralidak was to immediately
file a family law motion to resolve the parenting issues raised. He failed to do so. |
complied and filed the appropriate family law motions, which Commissioner Marianne
Jones acknowledged during the Ex Parte Adequate Cause hearing. My sincere hope is
that by following the directive of the protection order and utilizing the proper legal
channels, this pattern of aggressive behavior—which has actively undermined the
court’s intention for cooperative joint parenting for over five years- will finally be
addressed and ended. | have taken all steps required of me and ask the Court to
recognize that this misuse of the legal process must be stopped. | and especially our
children deserve peace.

(Attach additional single-sided pages if necessary and number them. Use form PO 010,
Statement.)

| certify under penalty of perjury under the laws of the state of Washington that the foregoing is
true and correct. ><] | have attached (number of pages) 12 pages.

Signed at (City) Duval (State) Natt on (Date) _S /al 2S

 

 

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Supplemental Declaration in case number 25-2-11308-6 SEA.

EXHIBIT B

April 10, 2025 — Medical Appointment Access Denial and Communication

This exhibit includes:
Screenshots of TalkingParents messages showing Mathew Ralidak failed to
coordinate Elora’s April 10 appointment.
Evidence that Veronika Goodnight was denied entry to the appointment.
Context surrounding Elora's emotional distress and the provider's concern about
her anxious and nervous behavior.

Submitted in support of the Supplemental Declaration of Veronika Goodnight for the May
14, 2025 hearing.

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Mat,

Per our parenting plan, | was
entitled to coordination for Elora’s
appointment and the opportunity
to attend. | was not informed of
the change in provider or date. |
showed up early, respectfully. You
created a scene in the waiting
room and | was denied entry by
the provider.

Elora’s behavior was highly
unusual and concerning. | will be
documenting this appointment

through the appropriate legal and
medical channels.

Veronika

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Review of Systems

Constitutional: Negative for fever.

HENT: Negative for sore throat.

Gastrointestinal: Positive for abdominal pain and
diarrhea. Negative for constipation, nausea and
vomiting.

Genitourinary: Negative for dysuria, frequency
and hematuria.

Muscul ias and

  
     
    
    
   

in: Negative for rash.
Neurological: Negative for headaches.
Psychiatric/Behavioral: The patient is
nervous/anxious.

Past Medical/Surgical History
Patient Active Problem List
Diagnosis

- Adjustment disorder, unspecified
* Adenoidal hypertrophy

History reviewed. No pertinent past medical
history.

Outpatient Medications

No current outpatient medications on file prior to
visit.

No current facility-administered medications on
file prior to visit.

Vital Signs
BP 106/64 (BP Location: Left arm, upper, Patient

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Supplemental Declaration in case number 25-2-11308-6 SEA.

EXHIBIT C

Consent to Treat Minor Without Parent Present — Cassidy Derieg

This exhibit includes:

Screenshots of the Consent to Treat a Minor Without Parent or Guardian Present
form.

Documentation that Cassidy Derieg, the adult daughter of Veronika's partner Colir
Derieg, was permitted to attend Elora's appointment for emotional support.

Explanation that this arrangement was agreed upon by Lisa Miller, ARNP, and
Veronika for Elora’s well-being, not as a replacement of parental rights.

Submitted in support of the Supplemental Declaration of Veronika Goodnight for the May
14, 2025 hearing.

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CONSENT TO TREAT A MINOR WITHOUT A PARENT/GUARDIAN PRESENT

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if you need to contact me (us) regarding the health of my minor child, you may contact me at the following telephone
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Visit Type: Brief Office Visit

Date: 5/22/2025

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Provider: Lisa M Miller, ARNP

Time: 8:45 AM PDT

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Elora’s May 22 appointment. Mathew
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making. He may only schedule
annual exams with coordination. This
appointment was not agreed upon or
coordinated with me and violates our
court order. Please pause all non-
_ emergency appointments until after

our custody trial.

Thank you for your understanding.

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Supplemental Declaration in case number 25-2-11308-6 SEA.

EXHIBIT D

Northwest Allergy and Asthma Appointment Conflict - August 2023

This exhibit includes:
Screenshots of TalkingParents messages showing Veronika Goodnight scheduled

a summer allergy appointment during her court-ordered uninterrupted time.
Mathew Ralidak's cancellation of the appointment without consent and attempt to

override her parenting time.
False accusations of contempt made by Mathew, despite clear parenting plan

protections.

Submitted in support of the Supplemental Declaration of Veronika Goodnight for the May
14, 2025 hearing.

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Created by Veronika Goodnight on 4/10/2025 at 11:40 AM

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Elora’s allergy testing appointment
has been scheduled for August 13,
which falls within my two weeks of
uninterrupted summer vacation
time as outlined in Section 9 of our
parenting plan. This appointment
was arranged following a referral |
received, and | will be taking her to
it as part of her routine care.

Given that this is my uninterrupted
time, | am requesting that you do
not appear at this appointment. If
you choose to disregard this
request, | will view it as
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Given that this is my uninterrupted
time, | am requesting that you do
not appear at this appointment. If
you choose to disregard this
request, | will view it as
interference with my court-ordered
residential time and will contact
the authorities as needed to
enforce the boundaries of the plan.

Please respect the terms we both
agreed to and allow Elora the

peace and consistency she

deserves during this time.

— Veronika

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This would be in contempt.

| will be scheduling with the NW
Asthma team and will work with
you on a date that works for both
of us. Should you choose not to
work with me, | will attend with
Elora.

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Elora’s allergy testing appointment
has been scheduled for August 13
— the only available date
provided, and it happens to fall
within my court-ordered two
weeks of uninterrupted summer
vacation time. Per Section 9 of our
Parenting Plan, | am under no
obligation to coordinate this time

with you, and | will not allow you to

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daughter's best interest, and | will
not subject either myself or Elora
to it again.

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The appointment is set. | will take
her. | will update you via this app
afterward and you can access her
records through the patient portal
as always. You are not to attend.
Should you show up, | will involve
law enforcement to ensure my
rights — and Elora’s peace — are
protected.

This is not negotiable. | will not

continue to tolerate controlling or
abusive behavior under the guise
of co-parenting. Respect the
Parenting Plan, respect my time,
and most importantly, respect
Elora’s well-being.

— Veronika

4/10/2025, 3:23 PM

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| was contacted today by
Northwest Asthma Center.
Michaela informed me that you
canceled Elora’s scheduled
appointment and asked them to
have me reschedule. | was not
notified, nor was this decision
coordinated with me, which is
required under Section 5(a) of our
parenting plan.

The appointment on August 13
had already been scheduled, and
your unilateral cancellation
without my knowledge is another
documented violation. I’ve

requested that your actions and

the lack of coordination be noted
in Elora’s chart.

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